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Friday
Jul182014

good news & bad news ... and some more news

The good news is:  Yesterday I discovered a lovely little french patisserie - rated one of the top 5 in the city!

 

The bad news is:  It's less than a block from my new house.

 

Is pastry high in iron?  No?  Humph.  Too bad I wasn't butter deficient.  ;)

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No we haven't moved yet.  This process is turning out to be like labour - painfully slow.  And messy.  And unpredictable.  And hard.  And while you're in the middle of it you swear you are never.going.to.do.this.again.  EVER! 

We were supposed to take possession of our new house today.  Let's just say there was a miscommunication between the bank and the lawyer.  It's been delayed until Monday.  I was only slightly panicked for most of the day.  But I'm really lucky because my lawyer and I have been good friends for like 30 years.  My realtor is also one of my best friends.  And my builder is a super awesome guy. 

And thank goodness we still have our old house until the end of the month. 

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And thank you all, by the way, for your fantastic advice about iron deficiency.  I've been low before, just never this bad.  (If you are medical at all and are curious - 'cause I would be if I were you - my hemoglobin was 77.  If you're not medical, it is supposed to be about 120.)  No wonder I was wheezing like Wylie Coyote chasing Roadrunner whenever I climbed a flight of stairs!  LOL!  I'm starting to notice some improvement now.  I can tell because we have a nice walking routine thru a large park and when we do the "short loop" there's a bit of a nasty hill to climb.  A few months ago I was so out of breath when I got to the top I could taste blood.  I couldn't talk and it took several blocks for me to catch my breath.  I just thought I was like so totally super out of shape and kind of horrified about that.  But yesterday on our walk I made it up the hill no problem.  I could talk (almost) normally at the top and recovered quickly.

I'm also sleeping better.  I really honestly thought the reason I was so tired all the time was because I wasn't getting enough good sleep.  But I don't feel that oh-my-god-I-would-sell-my-entire-fabric-stash-for-a-nap-right-now exhausted anymore.

I found a suppliment pill that doesn't bother me.  And I do wash it down with orange juice.  I know about the citrus helping with absorption.  But what I DIDN'T know was that tea was not good for taking iron.  So I was wasting my morning dose because I always have a cup of tea in the morning!  Now I wait a little while for my tea.  So thank you for that tidbit.  I've tried liquid iron before.  It worked well too.  I might switch to it when the pills run out.

Someone mentioned a parasite was the cause of her friend's anemia.  That sounded horrifying.  I'm so sorry that even happens.  Yikes!  I'm happy to say that mine can be chalked up to "natural causes".  (Sorry if this is getting a bit too personal.  It's Friday nite, I can't sew, I can't take pretty pictures and I needed a break so I just sat down here at my computer to say hi.  I guess for me hi = a mild/moderate dose of too much information.)

I miss you guys.  I am SO not at all enjoying not sewing and blogging.  I feel super guilty for not even having a pretty photo to show you.  There isn't a corner in my house that isn't upside down.  But Auntie Jill is here.  She arrived yesterday.  You know how awesome my sister is?  She's forcing us to eat our cupboards bare.  That's right.  For dinner tonite we had a combination of canned beans, toast with jam, fruit and artichoke hearts.  And sweet potato chips.  I am not kidding. 

All I want to do these days is find things to get rid of so I don't have to move it.  I went to the bottle depot yesterday.  That felt good.  Today I returned library books and then made my first ever trip to a pawn shop.  I know, so arbitrary, right?!  But you know how jewelry tends to just collect in your drawer?  I'm not much of a jewelry girl myself.  But this stuff has multiplied somehow over my lifetime - from relatives and gifts and ... you know, that sort of thing ... stuff that I will never wear.  They have no sentimental value to me.  Some of them I have no idea where they came from.  Some of them are just dated.  Some broken.  So.  I took a handful of gold pieces to a pawn shop and walked out with enough cash to buy a couple of take-out dinners when we move.  Call me crazy but that felt awesome!

Ok.  I really only thought I was going to tell you about my new bakery find.  Wasn't expecting to blurt out all that other stuff.  Hope you have a lovely summer weekend, wherever you are.  I'll be packing while my sister finds us more exciting meals to eat - like shrimp and prunes and mustard and granola bars.  She might even toss in a bay leaf or two.

xo k

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Reader Comments (31)

We're at the beginning of our build and it's exciting now but I know the stress will soon kick in. Hope you feel better soon and the move happens quickly so you can settle and rest in your new home.
July 18, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterChy
I loved your post. All your random news was so much fun to read. Good luck with everything!
July 18, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterLisa E
Hope that with your sister there you can breathe easy and take a few little cat naps. Moving is always stressful all of my moves over the years have always been huge distance ones, UK to Africa, Africa back to UK, UK to Papua New Guinea, then back to UK, Singapore, France and a few UK ones as well, my last was for years ago and was Kent to Suffolk in a blizzard and then snow laying for weeks, so I do know what you are saying, keep smiling through. Hope the meds kick in and that you feel back to normal very soon. Keep blogging we love to read all of the updates on your life. Ann xx
July 19, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterAnn
I went to my first french patissiere two years ago. They are wonderful. In regards to your iron, a spinach salad now and then won't hurt. Food cooked in an iron skillet is also helpful. May I suggest selling your nice jewelry via a reputable ebay seller vs a pawn shop - the next time. Moving is overwhelming. Hang in there.
July 19, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterJill
I'm so glad you are starting to feel better :) It's amazing how tired a body gets without it's iron. Now about that butter.... you DO know that butter is way better for you then margarine..right? ;) Enjoy the bakery
July 19, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterDorian
Mmmmm, french pastry! Lovely post!!! ( mouthwatering )
I already have moving stress and my house is not even on the market yet, ha ha! Tuesday the realtor is coming over to take the pictures that will go online. Cleaning and tyding today, and it is soooooo hot...no airconditioning here. I think I shall put that on my has-to-have-list instead of my wish-list for my new home. Do hope to sell my flat soon. Can take many months or even years ( yikes!) but the housing market is doing better now, so I am giving it a try.
I do hope you will feel even better soon!!!
July 19, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterEsther F.
So glad to hear you are feeling better!! Don't stress over the move, everything will turn out just fine. We moved into our home that we built on December 23rd! After 1 1/2 years of an apartment and forced move due to Hurricane K everything was great. Just being together and in your own place is fantastic! We didn't mind the boxes at all.
Quick question, how's is your 1/2" hexie quilt coming along? You have inspired a friend and I to each start one of our own!!!!!!! Two dianmonds down, don't know how many more to go but we are LOVING it;)!
July 19, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterSuzette
Always enjoy your post - we live vicariously through you! Things all work out in time - don't worry. Glad you are feeling better these days! I, too, need to get healthy! It's not easy. I would certainly be tempted by that bakery - you need a treat now and then though! We understand you won't have a lovely embroidered post for awhile, but enjoy your move and time off. We'll be here regardless!
July 19, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterSusan
Glad to hear you are feeling better. Moving is bad enough when you are completely well. Hope you don't have any more problems and we will see you on the other side. I can't wait to see what you will be creating for your new home and your sister is right, it is much easier to eat the food than pack it up and take it with you. You never know you might find a new favourite meal for the family xx
July 19, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterWendy
Thanks for the uplifting post - well your posts are always uplifting - must be your nifty attitude toward life. Have you tried substituting Dandelion Root Tea around that lovely time of the month - I wish I'd known about this stuff years ago! I now respect and let grow all the dandelions.
July 19, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterPauly
oooh, i know that feeling all too well: wanting to get rid of stuff so you don't have to pack it and move it! been there. done that.

miss k, i have been taking the liquid b12 under my tongue for over a year. it's cheap. it's easy. and, it can be taken with tea or coffee. has it helped me? i don't feel different but my blood work shows i am at normal levels again. ;p

we all miss you too. once you're in that new house you will be doing a jig! it WILL be worth it! ;p
July 19, 2014 | Unregistered Commenterina
Maybe you could walk the long way to the gorgeous pastry shop and burn off some of the calories before you get there?!! Glad to hear you're starting to pick up a little - be kind to yourself and don't overdo it!!
July 19, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterArchiethewonderdog
LOL - at least you still have your sense of humor!!! :O) So fun to see this post! I popped on to find a tutorial and was sad, wondering how long til we hear from you again -and here you are! REST! And I hope things go smoothly for you the next few weeks.
July 19, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterBari Jo
Sooooo glad you're feeling better!

Moving stress doesn't help, either. Our kitchen remodel is finally done, and I celebrated this morning by baking sourdough bread and making banana pudding, neither of which are necessarily healthy foods, both of which make me feel like I have my own little patisserie here. First time in two months I haven't cooked using a portable burner, toaster oven, or microwave. Bliss!!

And I may or may not have also celebrated by taking over half the kitchen island to audition fabric for a quilt, but no one has to know that.

Get some rest!
July 19, 2014 | Unregistered Commenterliz n.
Everyone should have a sister like yours. She sounds amazing! The meals, no so much!

When you write it is like having you sitting across the kitchen table from us. Oh what fun it is to get a glimpse into the incredible life of Ms. K. After you shared your story of the trip for a colonoscopy, anything you share now is mild by comparison. Ah, I still chuckle when I think about the descriptions in that post! When I reread it a while back, it again caused me to laugh so hard that I had tears and snot running down my face.

While iron deficiency is not a funny subject, when it is caught and you look back on how it affected you before you got better, you can find the humor. Being a klutz can have its advantages because you can tell if your bruises are taking too long to heal. Remember that when the doc lets you go off the supplements!

May you have a happy move when you get to start next week. Until then, enjoy discovering what from your cabinets really should never be eaten together.
July 19, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterLee
I am so sorry for your low iron....I was under 6 at tone point and my Dr put me on water soluable iron....digests in my tummy....I went from under 6 to over 14 in 3 months before my "surgery".....he was a Osteopath....so awesome!!.....will keep you in our prayers....that is not an easy place to be and as a nurse, please be careful until your counts are normal again, ok?....
July 19, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterKaren
Great post today...you are one hilarious lady! Good luck with the iron deficiency, the move, but most of all....your sister! Lol! :D
July 19, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterJeannie D
My thoughts are with you. Hopefully the rest of the move goes smoothly and you are able to get your new sewing space set up quickly. ( I know, that may not be the priority for everybody else in the family, but if they know what's good for them . . .). I'm glad you are feeling better - this problem probably couldn't have come at a worse time. Best wishes!
July 19, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterMargaret
Thank you for sharing! Sometimes sharing makes bad news less. Glad you are feeling better and my wish is you get back to normalcy as soon as possible! Enjoy your Sunday and your sister'a visit...sounds like she came to the rescue:). Best to you and your family
July 19, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterMaria Beuttenmuller
Thank you so much for your health up date and for sharing the reason you are having iron problems because my mind goes to the worst possible reason, but in this case I can relate as I had "lady" issues from the very beginning heavy and painful and long and irregular . I was the only girl 4 brothers my mother did not tell me much and I never spoke to her about "it".
Then I had an OBGYN appointment at that time of the month and told the dr I couldn't have a Pap smear due to it ..... the dr said oh yes you can and I said about how much ....etc and I just broke down and cried kind of surprised the dr ... so from there testing and I was very low iron and had huge fibroid and I had the all the female parts removed. For me it was so great to be able to plan ahead and not worry that if it came I couldn't go anywhere as I'd often need to change my clothes.
Now it's years and years later and I've learned I did not have to endear years of embarrassment and pain and cancelled events there are treatments but you need to tell your dr about what is going on the dr doesn't know if you don't speak up. I did not know that it wasn't that way for all women I didn't say anything and since it was an uncomfortable subject for me I avoided conversations about it.
So .... so glad you are seeing your dr and doing the best you can to take care of your self. Remember your children are learning from you all the time and of course you want them to take good care of themselves and each other.
Colleen
July 19, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterColleen
Hope you feel well soon, and a no picture post is fine, but next time take a picture of the pastries, lol.
July 20, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterMara
Awwww, hugs to you! Love this post, learning more about your life and what's going on in your world! Good luck with your new house venture and just think of how wonderful it will feel to be in your new space and at your sewing machine with all your lovelies around you! Thanks for sharing! Us girls gotta vent sometimes and what better place to do that than amongst friends and fans :) Happy Day to you and Happy House on Monday!!! Cassie
July 20, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterCassie
If you were (or are still) craving ice, yes ice, it is a symptom of iron-deficiency anemia. Sounds weird but it is true! Glad you are feeling better- hang in there. The crafty happy people world needs you! :)
July 20, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterRachael
As usual, loved, adored, laughed, cried and giggled at your post. Thanks so much for sharing - it makes my day, as it does so many others. Life is life - it's not always easy or straight forward, and it's lovely to allowed to have a glimpse into someone else's ups and downs - and be encouraged by others!
I am a midwife, totally understand the 'lady' issues, as well as low iron. It's often the little things that health professionals forget to tell you - like not drinking tea when taking iron tablets, or ensuring you have orange juice to help with the absorption, but I was most pleased to read others have advised you re this!!
Take care of yourself, take naps, try to enjoy the process of shifting house - it's been a long time coming, and this is part of your home's story now! Keep posting when you can. Hugs and best wishes, Barb
July 20, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterBarb
Glad you got the iron sorted out. I had blood tests as I am pregnant (at 40! total surprise!) And found out my iron is low too. So I am on iron pills and I do notice I feel more tired when I forget to take them.
July 20, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterAnita
Kristyne, while you have no idea about me, I enjoy following your creative blog. Sorry to hear about the extreme iron decline in your body. I am a retired RN so do understand the diagnosis a bit. Good you are seeing improvement. Not a fun story being so exhausted you can't enjoy much. Take care and thanks for keeping us posted. (&Not too much info for me.:-) ) I think the bakery sounds marvelous!!
July 20, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterBeverly
Oh, Kristyne, I just love your sense of humor. I'm also glad to hear you;re doing better. For all you've been through (and still going through), you deserve another trip to the bakery ;)
July 21, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterSandy O
Six years ago I moved from a place I lived in for 23 years - it was traumatic! I finally realized I was just throwing stuff out because I didn't want to move it and made myself stop - I packed it up and labeled it "look at this in a year" - slowly I've gone through these boxes and disposed of most things, but I'm glad I waited a bit. I too am anemic and that took a lot out of me as well. I take and iron supplement daily with orange juice and I'm very much aware when I forget (it's only happened a couple of times). I try to eat vegetables that are high in iron and fortunately I love spinach. It's an age thing with me and frankly, if it ends up being the worst thing - I'm good! Hopefully you'll be in your new place soon. I have heard, btw, that pastry is good for the blood...or is it that you don't worry about it for a few minutes... Oh, one more thing - I normally take pills that have a red coating on them. A pharmacy I was originally getting them from had ones with a green coating - I had digestive problems with the green ones - must have been the dye. Tried them a couple of times at long intervals, to be sure - same problem, so I take the red-coated ones - who knew?
July 21, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterSuzK
Hang in there, Kristyne. You will get through this. And we'll be waiting!
July 21, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterKaren Shackleford
Bless your heart :( I have been in your shoes - both medically and in moving so I know how wonky if makes your life. I have been married 18 years and in that 18 years we had 5 of those in our hometown then 13 years in 7 different cities in 3 states.

Every time we move I try to make sure I have one or two small things left out at all times that are fun for me that I can focus on when I need to take a stress break. Usually it's a good book and some hand stitching projects.. My kids also do the same and so far it works for us :).

Hang in there and remember to take a break when you need to. It will all be over soon! Cindy
July 22, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterCindy
Good luck with your move. IT WILL ALL WORK OUT. We moved about a year ago. In my opinion, moving is a nightmare. But the end result is worth it! And yes, get rid of stuff. I love my stuff, but the closer we got to moving, the more we got rid of -- the idea of moving all that stuff became overwhelming. And then there was the question of where to put it all. In the end, there are just a very few things that I wish I hadn't gotten rid of. But for the most part, I don't miss the stuff ... because, of course, we still have plenty.

Good luck with your move. And I hope you continue to feel better.
July 22, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterDebbie R

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